okay, let me tell you bout my dream man, or at least how i envision my husband slash boyfriend should be, and really, hope this is not gonna be an overlongggggggggggg post.
quality 1: a brainer
he has to have BRAINS. he has to be smart! okay, at least as smart as i am, or even smarter, cause if he's not, no matter how much he loves me and i him, his life's still gonna be a living hell. yeah, it's just an aquarius thing, bloggers, we always think (know) that we're always right. and oh the hard times when we have to fight to defend our views, we don't back down! in short, we are kiasu (pardon my hokkien) beings. we hate losing, but we still need the brain stimulation.
quality 2: qualifications
lets get real. i'm pretty well off, and that's how i got sent here to melbourne to study. meaning: i am getting one of the best education slash qualification the world can provide. the guy i'm gonna marry should have at least a good degree. hey i'm not saying i want a harvard kiddie or anything (maybe mark zuckerberg, cause he's now super smart and now super rich, but way too eccentric so to conclude NAH), please just don't give me someone with only a high school cert. god, just let him be a university graduate, or even post graduate. professors? gee, i'll think about it.
quality 3: hardworking
this is one of the things i learn from my close-knit family. the guy in the house HAS to be a hardworking person to serve as the backbone of the family. i mean, cmon, hardworkingness shows that he cares for the family and i guess it's just the norm. don't be silly, i think women should be just as hardworking as the guys, but all i'm saying is it should all start from the guys :D.
quality 4: responsible
this is the one that's gonna keep him from straying, and keeping food on the table. a sense of resposibility, a sense of duty.
quality 5: sense of humour
you can see from my posts, i am totally noise and a mouthful to bear with. okay. if my guy's gonna be without a sense of humour, he's gonna DIE, and I'M gonna follow his footsteps soon enough. i am not saying he has to be as noisy as i am, but gimme laughters and smiles please? they keep the world going, don't you think? and by the way, i don't want two as noisy as I in the same house; it's beyond creepy.
quality 6: humane
WHO WANTS TO HAVE A SERIAL KILLER AS A HUSBAND, OR SOMEONE WITH NO COMPASSION FOR YOU OR YOUR FAMILY OR PROBABLY YOUR KIDS LATER IN THE FUTURE?! GEE NOT ME, I LOVE HANGING AROUND WITH THOSE WHO CARE FOR THE WORLD, FOR THE ENVIRONMENT, FOR HIS OWN LIFE AND OTHER'S!
quality 7: honesty
i agree, honesty is indeed the best policy. i don't believe in white lies, cause they usually bring about only another lie which could have been not anymore a white lie. and honest guys show that they have courage and strength to actually face reality. that is the kind of person i want to rely on, not just some stupidly i-don't-care-if-i-lie-to-your-face kinda guy.
quality 8: pride
as a guy, as my boyfriend slash hubby, he has to be proud to be one. he has to be able to face the society down, and he has to have a goal! he has to be able to maintain a certain living standards and know the norms of my family's old chinese community rules. have a certain face. certain pride. certain price. even an arrogance in carrying your own name. i just wanna live happy and reasonably well-off! DUH!
quality 9: generous
i'm not saying when we date you have to pay for every one of my meals, no way, it makes me look like a penniless tart. at least be generous with your presents; do not be stingy to the smallest cent (or dollar). when i am desperate, be there to help! be generous with your affection and be generous in lending a helping hand. god knows when you need it, i'll be there for you too!
quality 10: ethnics (racism alert: do not read if you're easily offended)
ethics and ethnics. what a pair. from ethnics come ethics. and my family's ingrained this since i was a kid, marry one of CHINESE descendant. i am currently contemplating european or australian or american ones, but geez, i won't know if that's allowed. all i'm saying is that i don't want ethnics other than the aforementioned. they're gonna give me hell, as they'll have one hell of a time with me and my family too! it's gonna be an ardous journey, not only for them but also me.
as much as possible: same religion
amap: passable looks
amap: reasonably tall
amap: RICH RICH RICH
(NOT THE OH EM GEE YOU'RE BILL GATES RICH. THE OH SHIT YOU'RE FEDERER RICH? WELL, AT LEAST A HOUSE AND A CAR AND DEBT FREE AND 500 000 000 IDR IN HIS BANK ACCOUNT.)
amap: LOVES ME FOR WHAT I AM AND WHAT HE IS GONNA BE. US. BELIEVING IN OUR FUTURE TOGETHER.
to top everything off, here are some of the guys i heart, enjoy!
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